How to Honour a Loved One With Jewellery

How to Honour a Loved One With Jewellery

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Last Updated: October 2, 2026

Choosing Memorial Jewellery Inclusions That Tell Their Story

Memorial jewellery holds a small keepsake of someone you have lost. Learning how to honour a loved one with jewellery starts with one choice: what goes inside. At Precious Mementos By Sharna, we craft each piece around your inclusion, ashes, hair, breastmilk, fur, fabric or petals.

*EXCLUSIVE* Vintage Marquise CZ Filigree Earrings
*EXCLUSIVE* Vintage Marquise CZ Filigree Earrings

The inclusion should tell their story:

  • Ashes, for a physical connection to someone you lost
  • Hair or fur, for a gentle, familiar keepsake
  • Breastmilk, to mark a feeding journey or a loss
  • Fabric or petals, for a favourite shirt or a funeral flower

Each one is personal. There is no wrong choice.

Pro Tip If you are unsure, start with the material that already feels like them. A scrap of their favourite shirt often says more than a formal option ever could.

How to Send Ashes for Jewellery Safely and Securely

Sending ashes for jewellery is safe when the studio controls the process from the start. Once you order, we provide a collection kit with a screw-top secure container for your inclusion. You place the ashes, hair or breastmilk inside, seal it, and post it back using the guidance provided.

A few habits keep everything secure:

  • Only send a small amount, never the full urn
  • Keep the container sealed until it reaches the studio
  • Use tracked postage and keep the receipt

The kit arrives after ordering, not before, so your inclusion travels through one controlled, documented chain.

Keepsake Jewellery for Grief: Choosing the Right Piece

Keepsake jewellery for grief should match how you actually live. A ring suits someone who wears rings daily; if you rarely wear jewellery, a keyring or earrings may serve you better.

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Your situation Best piece Why it works
You wear rings daily Memorial ring Always on your hand
You rarely wear jewellery Heart or rectangular keyring Carried in a bag or pocket
You want something for occasions Marquise keepsake earrings Elegant, easy to store
You want a small, low-cost tribute Stainless steel urn keyring Simple and discreet

The Vintage Marquise CZ Filigree Earrings (£100.00) hold ashes, breastmilk or memorial resin in a 925 sterling silver setting, handcrafted in Birmingham. For something simpler, the Stainless Steel Heart Keyring (£75.00) keeps a memory close without asking you to change how you dress.

Every piece comes with a certificate of remembrance, proving what you sent was handled with care.

Watch Out A common mistake is choosing a piece you will not wear. A beautiful pendant that stays in a drawer honours no one. Pick something that fits your daily life first.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is memorial jewellery and how does it work?

Memorial jewellery is a bespoke piece, such as a pendant, ring, or keyring, that holds a small inclusion from someone you have lost. The inclusion, whether ashes, hair, breastmilk, or petals, is set into a resin inlay inside the jewellery. This lets you keep a physical connection close, so the piece becomes something you can wear or carry daily rather than store away.

How do I safely send ashes or hair for memorial jewellery?

Once you order, the studio sends you a collection kit containing a screw-top secure container for your inclusion. Place a small amount of ashes, hair, or breastmilk inside, seal it tightly, and return it using the packaging provided. Only a tiny quantity is needed, so you never have to part with the full amount. The kit is designed to keep irreplaceable materials safe in transit.

How long does it take to create bespoke memorial jewellery?

Turnaround depends on the piece. Custom and exclusive designs, such as the Vintage Marquise CZ Filigree Earrings, take 8 to 10 weeks because each one is handmade to order. Simpler keepsakes may be quicker. If you need something for a funeral or anniversary, mention your date when ordering so the studio can advise on what is possible.


Grief rarely follows a tidy timeline, and choosing a tribute can feel overwhelming when you are already carrying so much. Precious Mementos By Sharna makes that choice gentler, with handcrafted pieces, a secure collection kit, a certificate of remembrance and personal guidance from first message to finished piece. Create Your Piece with Precious Mementos By Sharna and keep your loved one close.